Crossing souls over, Clearings and $10.00/hr

SPEAKER_02 0:00

On this week's episode of Three Cups and a Dash of Spirituality, listen in as Stacy, Carissa, and myself talk about clearings and crossing souls over. This will be an inspired conversation that we're so excited to share with you. So it all starts in three, two, one. Stacey. Hi, Stacy. Hello, Michelle. Hello, everybody. And Carissa.

SPEAKER_00 0:47

Hey, hey, hey. Hey, hey, hey.

SPEAKER_02 0:50

Let's get this party started. Is that what you mean?

SPEAKER_00 0:53

This party started. Carissa, I was expecting a hey, hey, hey.

SPEAKER_02 0:58

Hey, hey, hey. It's not a call in sight, ladies. It's a podcast.

SPEAKER_00 1:05

It's 25 cents a minute.

SPEAKER_02 1:10

You're cheap. Most of them are a dollar a minute. Are they really? Well, I don't know for sure. I think so. That's what commercials say.

SPEAKER_00 1:18

Well, that's true. A dollar a minute, 60 minutes, 60 bucks. I guess that's not a whole lot of money, actually. They need more. I think the sex workers need more. So much more.

SPEAKER_02 1:31

So don't sell yourself at 25 cents, girl.

SPEAKER_00 1:34

Yeah, I'm just thinking I'm thinking back to the 80s or something.

SPEAKER_01 1:39

Bumping up to 35, and we're in, we're in working over.

SPEAKER_00 1:44

$10 an hour. $10 an hour. Going once. An hour twice. No, I mean a minute. Yes. $10 a minute. That's right. That's what I meant. I obviously could not be a phone sex worker, I guess.

SPEAKER_01 2:01

Yeah, because you'd only charge $10 an hour. $10 an hour or something crazy like that. Oh man. Michelle, what are we talking about today? Good heavens.

SPEAKER_02 2:14

Today we have decided that we are going to be talking about crossing souls over and clearing space, land of the stuff it's holding on to, the energy it's holding on to. This is a wonderful topic. Our listeners out there don't know that we are all on a crossing over team together. So we've worked quite a few clearings together. We've worked with each other when we've had issues we've come up with that we didn't know quite how to address on our own. And yeah, we've done a lot of teamwork here.

SPEAKER_01 2:53

Yeah, we did. I mean, I would like to just throw out there that we kind of lean into each other when we need um any sort of support with clearings and crossing over work and stuff like that. But what is what does that mean though? Like what does crossing over actually mean? Carissa.

SPEAKER_00 3:11

Uh crossing over is means stole souls. If I can't talk today when souls are stuck, when souls are stuck, and this is what I've learned from this age method that sometimes the guides need our help, and we need our guides' help in order to assist to help them cross over. Did I formulate that properly?

SPEAKER_01 3:35

Yeah, I love that. How do you know, Chris? What does it feel like to you when a soul is stuck?

SPEAKER_00 3:41

Oh boy. I mean, so they can just wake me up in the middle of the night, they can come to me, they can be erratic. And one time where my dog is just staring at nothing and barking, and so I had to sit there and tap in. I have never and knocked on wood, only my spirit guides have moved stuff in my house. They have never moved anything, and I don't want that experience. I'm kind of saying that, put it out there. So that they typically come through in my mind's eye, um, or they're getting their message across through my animals. What about y'all? I was gonna say, Michelle, what about you?

SPEAKER_02 4:19

This is when the term clueless psychic comes in very well because I'm the one who still has to double check or validate any information that I can. The hardest part for me stepping into this crossing over work is determining whether or not a spirit I was interacting with or seeing was stuck here in the in between, or if it's it was someone who'd already crossed over. And so I really had to get in tune with how that felt different, what I found. Souls that are stuck here in the in-between still have emotions attached to them that are lower in vibration, such as fear, such as anxiety, guilt, those kind of emotions. And so that's how I've been able to differentiate them. But it it has been a lesson for me and a challenge, but now I do know the difference. I'm probably not answering the question that you asked. No, you got it. No, you answered it.

SPEAKER_01 5:29

You answered it, definitely. I'm very similar. Well, I guess so when I experience a stuck soul, I immediately so when I see people like living or deceased, I kind of see their vibrations. And it's kind of a weird way to explain it, but I immediately can feel what that person was like is like kind of who they are at their core. So when I experience a stuck soul, typically it is like you just said, Michelle, it's a lower vibration, and I can kind of see it a little lower than someone who's crossed over because those who are crossed over that are coming back with messages for loved ones, they feel good. They they are like all that is love and they come in a capacity to share knowledge with people and they do it in a way that will actually help the person move forward with their life. It might not always be the message the person wants to receive, but it's forward moving nonetheless. So whenever I experience or come across a soul that's stuck, it's a lower vibration and I kind of step into that, ugh, it doesn't feel good. I recently did a land clearing and I stepped into a space where there was a soul that was stuck that was just angry. So, so, so, so angry. And when I was clearing this house, the person was in the basement, kind of hiding, and he had really become, I'm gonna use the term attached. Like he really liked the previous homeowner that was there because the previous homeowner shared a similar personality trait or was very easily angered. So sometimes those souls that are stuck in that lower vibrational emotion step into that and like really will lean into a living person that is stuck in that lower vibration as well. Does that make sense?

SPEAKER_00 7:21

Yeah, did I answer that? Yeah, no, and yeah, and not saying no, but yeah. No, and yeah, yeah, and no, and yeah. Did that confuse you? And then what's really interesting too when we're crossing people of people, people, or they are kind of spirits or people too, is what Bo says. Bo the sage method, she's our mentor. I have crossed over, I've crossed over a psychopath, I have crossed over personality disorders, and sometimes not all, but it sometimes they're just those people, you know, that were human that were just, you know, a little psychologically difficult. Not all, but some.

SPEAKER_01 8:03

Yeah, and sometimes it's just a little old lady that's worried about how her husband's going to continue to eat. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 8:10

Yes, yeah. I've had a little old lady who was taking care of the of the person's babies. Yeah. It's true.

SPEAKER_02 8:19

Yeah, for me, the hardest part, and I talked kind of briefly on it, um, about crossing over work, is sometimes it can feel like, did that really just happen? Um, so you're having this experience, you're seeing this person, you're leading them to let go of their angst or whatever they're holding on to. And then once they're gone, it really for me still is did that really just happen? And so sometimes I do go to the internet with the few facts I could gather and I try to find that person. And it's worked once or twice, but most of the time you don't know the person and you just have to trust the experience and know that it happened.

SPEAKER_01 9:06

And and every once in a while, when you do that, get that confirmation, it's so, so comforting to know that, like, holy cow, that really like my experience was real. And so, just to you know, piggyback off that, the house that I was talking about clearing in the basement, the homeowner actually did some research and found out that the person who passed away in the home was pretty heavy into some uh specific addictions, and he was very angry, like he was known to be angry, so it validated like holy crap, you know, this is real.

SPEAKER_02 9:41

And a lot of times when we're doing crossing over work too, and Carissa alluded to this a little bit, she said that she has crossed over a psychopath. I can't remember what other personality, but we here on earth have our energy signature. We have those things that we're here to help with. And so while Carissa's taking on those stuck spirits, Stacy's taking on a different set of stuck spirits, and I'm taking on a different set generally, not all the time. There is still crossover, and you can still have other personalities that you don't typically get. But do you find that also? I mean, that's what I feel when we have our discussions.

SPEAKER_01 10:24

Yeah, I I tend to go with um younger, I help some kiddos and some not great people. Not like you necessarily, Carissa, but like some criminal people as well.

SPEAKER_00 10:40

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 10:40

And it's like I it it changes the way you cross them over too.

SPEAKER_02 10:45

Yeah, I would think, Stacy, from our talks, you get a lot of people that flip you attitude, and your attitude just has to be bigger than that. I mean, you just know how to come back and how to talk to them and um handle that situation beautifully.

SPEAKER_01 10:59

You know what's really funny about that though is if you meet me in person, I'm really I don't have that much of an attitude, but I don't step into the BS, like kind of a straight shooter whenever it comes to like crossing, crossing over and stuff like that. Like I don't mess around. And I think a lot of that is a protectiveness that I have for my spiritual self, where I'm like, uh no, we're not playing. But if you meet me in person, I feel like I'm more of like a cuddly little teddy bear.

SPEAKER_02 11:30

Well, we still haven't met you in person, so that's yet to be determined on. I know.

SPEAKER_00 11:35

Oh, when is that gonna happen, Stacey?

SPEAKER_01 11:38

Hey, hey, you were just in Boston, and we could have met Carissa.

SPEAKER_00 11:45

Oh piggybacking on that, the Salem thing, I was in the Sage Practitioner meeting where Stacey Michelle, you guys couldn't attend, and I did get clarity for those who listened to episode one, and what came from it because I was energetically resistant to even tapping in. And I was a little emotionally dysregulated, like it was pretty raw sharing my story first, and that was really confusing for me. So, what I got out of the meeting was that everybody else was able to tap in and that I had a past life there. And I said, well, okay, fine, past life. Why am I so raw about this? Like, why am I feel a little, you know, sad and frustrated and anxious? And you know, someone made a great point where they said, you're in this past life place where people are, these women were bludgeoned and brutalized, and people are dressing up and you know, making light of it when it was pretty brutal and serious if you were there during that time. So, and then someone else made a great point where they said, you know, some places we just probably aren't meant to go to. And that was really interesting because I've always wanted to go to Boston, Salem, and always there's always something that came up. And this time I was like, My my daughter was 16, she goes, No, I really, really want to go. And she's the one that made it happen. So I thought that was really interesting.

SPEAKER_02 13:20

And it's so nice to have that support too, um, from people that you respect and people that know your story and know your heart to be able to step into that for you and to help you work through it. So such a blessing.

SPEAKER_01 13:33

I'm also gonna throw out there that you know, living in New England, New England is a real kind of horror show, kind of, and and I say that super lightly because so much has happened on this land that the majority of the time that I do clearings, I have to connect into the land because there's so much here.

SPEAKER_02 13:57

Chris, is there anything else you'd like to share about the experience, like where you're at now with it?

SPEAKER_00 14:02

Oh, I just feel so much more at peace because especially being a therapist, I'm like, this is a bit silly to have these kind of emotions around this and why and why. I I am the person that chases the why until I get the answers. So when I got the answers in the validation, it's just like it was released. So it was pretty cool.

SPEAKER_02 14:26

Yeah, that is a huge gift. And I'm so happy that you had that time to have that conversation. Yeah, community is important, it sure is, sure is. And Stacy, a minute ago, you brought up about the land in New Hampshire and doing land clearings. For the listeners, can you please share what the difference is between clearing land and crossing over or clearing a space of energy?

SPEAKER_01 14:54

Oh, sure. So a land clearing is essentially you are removing any negative things that have happened in the land, on the land, or near the land for the people that are moving into that space. If we look back in just history and how bloody all of the world's history is and can be, it's going back in time in a way and and kind of neutralizing that kind of, I'm gonna say hate that can be caused in that space. Whereas the crossing over work is moving a soul that is stuck in a negative vibration to become one essentially with source, with God, with whatever your personal belief systems are from that negative vibrational space into a higher vibration. And then the third that you threw out there is energy clearing. So when we move into a new home that was occupied by people who lived there previously, the home absorbs the energy and there's kind of like an energetic, uh, like an energetic feel that a space gets. Like when you go home to your mom's house, for example, your mom's house will always feel like your mom's house, even if they move into a different space, because that's your mom's energy, and and the house kind of absorbs that and it becomes a part of them in a way. So whenever I go into kind of clear a space of previous owners, it's clearing the good, the bad, the ugly, and neutralizing it so that it's ready for new people to step in and create their own energy without having the influence of past people. You did that beautifully. Oh, thank you. I was like, does that make sense?

SPEAKER_02 16:47

It makes so much sense. So we're crossing souls over and the energetic clearing, a huge part of that because I do those also is as you said, walking into the space, removing all that was, but then filling it up with possibilities, filling it back up with love, filling it up with flow, filling it up with all those good higher vibration things. So it's a better starting point for the family or the business moving into that location. Absolutely. So, do we want to talk a little bit about what a crossing over or an energetic clearing feels like when we're working as a team? Do you think we can explain that?

SPEAKER_01 17:32

I I mean, we can certainly try. I that it's gonna be tough because I know it feels different every single time, too. That's true. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 17:41

Well, I just remember one experience, and I'm not sure Carissa was there for this one, but the team had gone in to do a clearing, and we all went in, we did our own parts, and then we came out, and it was able to all be tied together, even though our experiences were so different. And that's kind of what I'm getting at is when we go in, our experiences are gonna be different. Our guides are gonna take us to what needs our specialty, what needs our type of help. We're gonna work on that while someone else is working on that, while someone else is working on that, but it all comes together. And so I think that was a point I was hoping to get across.

SPEAKER_00 18:23

Yeah, I got it. No, I remember one we all did together, and I just didn't want to go in. Like I did not want to go in and do some of the work, and so I just held space and every one of us had a different experience and they all connected. So, I mean, I can't even remember all the examples though, because sometimes I'm like in a translight state, and so I can't remember.

SPEAKER_02 18:50

Right, and everything is or every experience, as you have said, they're all different, and so what we're called to do during that time is different, and it really is hard to remember afterwards because you do go into the state of just being so present there that when you come out of it, you don't remember a lot of it. I find that in card readings also or working with people is I'll go in, I'll be fully aware, I'm gonna tell you everything coming through, but when I leave it behind, I leave it behind.

SPEAKER_01 19:21

I can answer every single question that you ask me when I'm in that space, but as soon as we leave that space together, all of that information that I just gave you is completely gone. And so it's it's funny.

SPEAKER_00 19:33

I'm sure there's got to be some neuroscientists that have measured or tracked the brain waves when if there's not, there will be. I mean, I there I has to be because it is a very interesting state. It's a little hypnotic.

SPEAKER_01 19:53

I agree.

SPEAKER_02 19:54

And in the moment, you don't even realize that's what's happening. At least I don't realize it's what's happening, but when I can't recall it afterwards, and there is a part of me that feels bad because I will hold on to it for a little while in case they have a question after the session. But let's say they contact me in the month and they're like, remember when you said this? I'm like, I'm sorry, I don't. And I feel a little bit bad. Like they might think I'm not respecting their story or it didn't mean enough to remember, but it's just not that. I just can't retain it.

SPEAKER_01 20:26

Well, and I also think it's important to note that when you're doing a psychic reading or any sort of intuitive session like that, too, and you're giving people pieces of information, one of the reasons that we may not retain it is because it is no longer in it can no longer be applied to the situation. So we have this ability as humans living in our situations and our own awareness to shift our futures just by, you know, essentially a thought. So when we go and have a reading by a psychic or a medium or anything along those lines, they're giving us a snapshot of now. This is where you are now. And so when they leave that space, if they come back and ask a question about that snapshot, we might not remember it because the snapshot now looks completely different.

SPEAKER_02 21:18

Free will and just allowing your energy to move and flow and releasing it just changes everything. Absolutely. Yeah, I can do an email reading also where it's all written out, and at least they can hold on to that and refer back to where they were then, and they can see how far they've grown.

SPEAKER_01 21:39

Absolutely. I love that.

SPEAKER_02 21:41

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 21:42

So I don't know. I feel like this is a really, really, really great place to wrap it up. And Michelle, because you brought us in, I want a word of wisdom from you for our listeners.

SPEAKER_02 21:54

Goodness, a word of wisdom from the clueless one. Not just one, you can give more than one word. Okay, words of wisdom from the the clueless one. Oh, hold on.

SPEAKER_01 22:04

Words of wisdom from Michelle.

SPEAKER_02 22:07

Oh, I like that. I want to hear it in Carissa's voice, though.

SPEAKER_00 22:11

Words of wisdom from Michelle.

SPEAKER_02 22:14

Dun dun dun. Okay, here we go. Stay open to possibilities, stay open to what could be. Don't limit yourself with expectations, don't doubt it. Flow with it, stay open because anything is possible. It's all within your reach. You just have to reach for it. I love that.

SPEAKER_01 22:40

Those were beautiful words.

SPEAKER_02 22:42

Did I nail it?

SPEAKER_01 22:43

You nailed it. Totally nailed it.

SPEAKER_02 22:46

Well, I like when that happens. I think I'm the only one here whose voice hasn't been called sexy.

SPEAKER_01 22:52

Oh, I'm sorry, Michelle, and your sexy voice. There you go. Now it has.

SPEAKER_02 22:58

Oh, but as always, this is a complete joy to have this time to chat with you and to help other people or to inspire people who are interested in this type of work. We are here for it. We are here for the conversation. So if you have any questions, please send us an email. And Stacy, what is the email address again? Three Cups Podcast at Outlook. And leave a message on Instagram too. And Stacy has just launched or is getting ready to launch our website. It's launched. It just needs to be worked on more. But it is launched. Okay, and you can reach out to us there also. So we're here for it. Yeah. And I'm here to see everybody. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 23:41

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 23:42

See you next week. And be spiritual. Bye.