Are you reading me?

SPEAKER_00 0:00

On this week's episode of Three Cups and a Dash of Spirituality, we are going to be talking about why we'll never give you the lottery numbers and other things like that. So stay tuned. Hey everyone, it's Michelle from Three Cups and a Dash of Spirituality. As you can see, I forget we're doing this video part, but I'm here today with Stacey. Hello, everybody, and Carissa. Hello, hello. Hello, hello. And we're coming to you with our lovely earphones on, trying something new and our microphones. And today, if this wasn't enough to laugh at us about, we are going to be talking about making fun of having spiritual abilities or people we encounter that maybe are a little uncomfortable with the thought of, and they use humor. That's the way I'm going to look at it, rather than just asking questions. So again, hi everyone.

SPEAKER_01 1:00

Hi.

SPEAKER_00 1:01

Oh my gosh, are you reading me right now? Oh, that's gonna be a total component. That's perfect. Um that's what people are thinking.

SPEAKER_01 1:11

That's what a lot of people are thinking. Do you want to start? Do you hear my dad talking to you? Do you see dead people everywhere you go? No, it's called boundaries.

SPEAKER_00 1:23

Yeah, it's called having ethics and knowing that you know we're not supposed to be reading you unless we have your permission.

SPEAKER_03 1:31

Did you know I was gonna call?

SPEAKER_00 1:35

I knew we were gonna record this podcast today. Oh, you shouldn't have been using your psychic abilities.

SPEAKER_02 1:42

I know, or my calendar get my permission. You have to get consent, but let's talk about the ethics on that. Yeah, I would love to. So, okay, Michelle, you talked about ethics and ethically, is it okay to walk around and try to figure someone out and tap in to see what's going on with them and their life and who has passed away, not without their consent.

SPEAKER_00 2:10

It's not, yeah, absolutely not, because well, there's so many different reasons. The first one popping into my mind, and maybe I'm using my intuition, maybe I'm not, is you don't know where someone is on their journey and whether or not they would be open to a message. You don't know who this person coming to you was to them, and it could be a trigger. So you don't just walk up to somebody in a park in a grocery store in a restaurant and say, Hey, I have a message for you.

SPEAKER_03 2:41

Hey, your ma's right here with me. You want to talk to her? Yeah, not appropriate, not appropriate at all. Here's the caveat to that, though. I know for me, and I'm sure you guys have experienced this. Some information does come through, and we do get information. Now, the ethics piece then is do we share it? And my answer exactly is typically absolutely not. If I get information from somebody that I know and they have not given me permission to read them, give them information that comes through or anything along those lines, absolutely I am not sharing that information. It's more like you step into somebody's energy, you know that they're fighting with their significant other, and you can feel it and you know it's there, and you're like, Whoo, that's a hostile relationship right there. And you don't go. So let's talk about your relationship.

SPEAKER_02 3:31

And one time this happened. So, first of all, if someone who's past transition, passed away, asks me, hey, there's my daughter over there, could you go get this message? I will turn to that spirit and say, You need to set things up so she finds me or another psychic. She needs to get the consent. One time, so I'm a supervisor here in the state of Texas. I had, I was doing my triadic supervision and I was taking one of my interns into like a meditative place, and her mother came through. Oh, I had an intuitive notion to say, hey, tell her to turn right. Well, turn I didn't know who it was. She said, turn right. It was her mother. The next time we met, I said, listen, I've been thinking about that. I really apologize. I didn't know your mother was telling me to tell you to turn right. I thought it was following my intuition. I really apologize. Ethically, this is not okay. And she said, actually, you know, I am I do still have kind of contact with my mom, and she even just telling me, leading me to my next supervisor, postgrad, all that kind of stuff. So that did happen once, and I made sure to go in and apologize because that was out of my awareness.

SPEAKER_00 4:40

So let me ask, I know what it feels like for me, but what does it feel like to you when you're out in public? Because you can't always just tap in, but information is coming at you. What does that feel or look like to you? And how do you balance that living your day-to-day life? Does that make sense?

SPEAKER_03 5:01

Absolutely. That's a great question. Carissa, do you want to dive into this one first?

SPEAKER_02 5:05

So every morning I've talked about this. I tap in with my guides throughout the day. If intuition comes, if it's for my highest good, I listen to it, I follow it. I'm pretty, I'm almost I'm 80% I'm following in the flow every day, unless the human shit hits, right? 80% I'm just in the flow. And so I'm not being bothered by it. If in regards to crossing over work, that's when it becomes work. That's where I set up my boundaries and say no. Did I answer your question though?

SPEAKER_00 5:36

Um kind of because I was just recently visiting my hometown and I didn't have a lot of downtime. And people kept coming up to me and saying, Oh, could we do a reading? Could we do a reading? And with all the noise around me, I couldn't focus in enough to even be in that space to give a reading. And I acknowledge that and hopefully didn't hurt anybody's feelings. But when I'm in public, like I see a lot around me still, but it's hard to tap into that information for me coming in when there are other people around. It's too much noise. I see what you're saying.

SPEAKER_03 6:12

So hurt me personally, you know, I see things in two different ways. So the first way I see things is when I meet people, I see things vibrationally within them. So immediately know if I'm going to connect to somebody, if it's going to be a good relationship, I immediately know like this person is safe or this person is a good life choice for me, whatever, whatever that means. But I see everyone that way. So, in a way, I have to kind of, so if I walk into a crowd and there are hundreds of people here and I see everybody vibrationally, I have to kind of imagine myself wearing a cap. So I'm not so overwhelmed at seeing so many different vibrations, so many different people, and you know, hearing the or feeling the different like where they all stand until I'm looking at one person. And that one person is the person that I need to like address in any capacity. Now, with that said, psychic information as it comes through, to me, if I'm in a crowd and I'm not really thinking about it, it feels like thousands of voices talking to me all at the same time. This almost incessant murmur of just just stuff coming up, coming through that, you know, if I was to slow down and listen to one or two of those voices, I could like make out, but I choose not to. So it's just kind of like this like, okay, background like murmur that's happening. And it allows me, again, talking. I know in a previous episode we talked a little bit about ADHD. It allows me to just accept that it's happening, kind of like somebody that has tinnitus that needs that sound in the background. I have that sound, I have that constant like access to those voices of people that want to deliver a message, want to see their loved ones, want to experience those things, but I'm not consciously going quiet enough to allow it to come through because if I did, or if I opened myself up to that, I would never be able to leave the house ever.

SPEAKER_02 8:16

And it sounds like you are living in the intuitive flow, and the ball cap analogy or metaphor is your boundary.

SPEAKER_03 8:24

Yeah, absolutely. I don't I don't want to see your shit. I'm good. I have enough.

SPEAKER_02 8:30

Yeah, like I don't want to know about it. I don't want to know.

SPEAKER_03 8:33

And like lied to me and ask me what the winning lottery tickets are. I want nothing more than to fucking punch you in the face. Like, let's be real. Again with the violence, Stacy.

SPEAKER_02 8:43

I'm so glad because when we start out, y'all held me the angry one. It's Stacy now. It's Stacy.

SPEAKER_03 8:51

Well, it's to me, it's it's like that one question, and it comes up a lot. A lot of people actually think it's cute and funny to ask a psychic what the winning lottery tickets are. I'm not quite sure why.

SPEAKER_02 9:03

Um I do because they're I'll answer it because I used to be an atheist and I used to have that thinking, that way of thinking. Well, if you're psychic, then you'd win the lotto. Well, no, I sat down one time with my guides and I said, Man, I'd like to win the lotto. And they go, anything's a possibility. And I said, and I said, Okay, well, show me what it would be like if I won the lottery. And I sat down, I closed my eyes. They what it's kind of ineffable, but I'm gonna, it's an experience. I, it's like moment to moment, second to second, I'd have to work to stay humble. That is what they were showing me through this experience. And I go, Oh, I get it now. I get why it wouldn't be in my best interest. And they were showing me, do you really want that?

SPEAKER_00 9:54

It's like, oh no, especially when like being humble is such a part of who you are, like you really attach to that, and that's how you present yourself to the world.

SPEAKER_03 10:06

So and the other piece of this is winning the lottery can change literally everything about your life, and it changes the experiences that we're here for. So when people ask me what the winning lottery tickets are, ticket it, tickets, whatever numbers, what whatever the frig they are. I don't typically buy them, but whenever they ask me, I just I'm like, it that's that's not how it works. It's not that's not even even if I could, even if I knew and and I went and I and I played the winning lottery tickets, my guides would be like it now.

SPEAKER_02 10:41

And I love how we're talking about this because I literally I have a teenage daughter, she uses literally, I literally used to think like that. Literally, seriously. I'd be like, You're not psyched, you win the lottery. And I think it's very common and normal to have that thought because I used to think like that. And I wish someone would have described it the way we're describing it to each other on this podcast because then it would have made sense. Yeah, I've never had that. I hope it makes sense for the listeners. Uh, you have it? Oh, I didn't know. I never have had that thought.

unknown 11:13

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 11:14

I was cynical, I was so cynical.

SPEAKER_03 11:15

And I think the other thing that that comes up that we kind of touched on is that question of, are you reading me right now? And so I'm gonna answer this just a little bit differently, and then I want to hear your thoughts on it. Because with me, if I'm meeting you and you and I are having some kind of interaction, I am reading you to determine if I want to continue. Yeah, I want to read each other. Yeah, on an unreality level, we all, yeah, yeah, but I'm I'm reading you to determine if I want to have continued interactions with you. Do you give me that hardcore ick? Are you cool? Because if you're giving me the ick, I don't want to continue to work with you. And every human being does that, and it's important, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 11:56

And I agree with that. I think when I meet people, it's not that I'm reading what's going on in their life, I'm reading their energy. Like you said, how is this going to interact with my energy? And am I safe? And so it really is all about me in those moments. And I do love when people, you know, just you've met, well, if you're a psychic, what am I thinking right now? And I just want to say to them, you're you're thinking I'm full of shit and you want me to prove myself. And that doesn't feel very good to me. Can I wiggy back on that?

SPEAKER_02 12:30

Yes, you know what? We are not entitled to read people's thoughts. I'm sorry, I am not allowed to read your thoughts, even if you ask me, if it comes through, you know, okay, we'll see. But those are your thoughts, they're sacred. That's your private time.

SPEAKER_03 12:48

And I'll even piggyback on that and say that's not how readings work. I don't read your thoughts, I don't read your mind. I'm reading your energy and what your guides and your your life experience is telling me in that moment. I don't connect that way. That's just I've never been able to read someone's mind and step into the world.

SPEAKER_02 13:05

Who would want to read someone's mind?

SPEAKER_03 13:08

Uh I have another.

SPEAKER_00 13:10

That would drive me crazy. No, I wouldn't want to read anybody's mind, know what they're thinking. And again, I can pick up on emotions because I'm an empath and they become my own emotions. So if you're having a bad day, I might pick up on that, but I I'll just think I'm having a bad day until I can sit with it and sort it out.

SPEAKER_03 13:29

And let's be real, I don't even want to read my own fucking mind. Like we have to listen to that all the time. Yes, I think that's a great point. There's we need a break.

SPEAKER_00 13:40

Like, no, I'm good. Yeah, we we need a break. Yeah, even when you're trying to go to sleep, it's talking to you, and you're like, shut up. I already know what's going on in my life, I don't need to think about it anymore today. So yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 13:53

And so for me, I have a lot of visuals. It's energy too and the intuition. The I don't know the Claire's as well as Michelle does, but the knowing. Which one is that? Do you know? Putting you on the spot.

SPEAKER_00 14:04

I do know what is it? Claire. Well, I was waiting for you to ask nicely.

SPEAKER_01 14:09

I it's Claire Cognizance. Oh Claire Cognizance.

SPEAKER_02 14:16

Thank you. Thank you. Claire cognizance. So I have that. That's how I lead with more is the Claire Cognizance visuals and also uh the feeling and empathy.

SPEAKER_03 14:26

The mom and Michelle just came out. I just want to ask nicely. Oh gosh. Yes, you triggered something. She got spicy for a second.

SPEAKER_00 14:38

Spicy, spicy. I've never been called spicy before. You're being spicy today.

SPEAKER_03 14:44

I like that. Spicy too. I'm trying to think of what else comes up. You know, I know there have been spaces that I've been in, and you know, my mom introduces me to some people as, you know, this is my daughter, and she's a psychic medium. And one of the first things that some people will say is, I don't believe in any of that stuff. So I don't know what your responses are when people approach you like that, but my response is that's cool. Get on with your bad, get on with your bad self. Like it does not bother me that you don't believe in what I do. You don't have to. I whatever. What do you guys do?

SPEAKER_02 15:15

That actually happened this morning in my neighborhood boot camp. You know, someone started talking about they took their daughters to a paranormal something. Um, it was like a documentary. And I said, Oh, they're into that. It should do my podcast. Said, hey, I just want to let you know, I don't want to offend anybody because this podcast is, you know, on a different kind of spirituality, but it also intertwines psychology and other stuff too, and science, you know, neuropsychology, we talk about. And everyone was like, Oh, cool, yeah, I want to follow it. So I always want to be respectful. Like, I'm not that kind of person to go around and be like, this is the end, I'll be out. Because it's it's not. Everybody's on their own path, and there we're supposed to be where we're supposed to be.

SPEAKER_00 15:54

And this kind of leads into the topic today of being like made fun of because you think differently. But what I'd like to say to that is I filter my information differently. I decide to bring it through my spiritual body and then accept it into my programming and physical body. And it's part of who I am. However, I can read a room. And if I'm in a room full of people who aren't gonna buy it, I'm not gonna bring up the conversation with you. I'm not gonna start talking about this because it'll make you uncomfortable. I don't like being uncomfortable. So you learn to read the room and the audience, but every once in a while you're taken by surprise, and that's never comfortable.

SPEAKER_03 16:43

I always prefer my mom introducing me as a psychic medium because the other introduction I get is this my daughter, she has a naked lady on her back.

SPEAKER_02 16:51

Your mom, man, she's just taking that one home.

SPEAKER_03 16:54

You usually live it to her grave. She's carrying that one to her grave. It's it's hilarious. And then I usually will pull my shirt up to show it off just to piss her off even more. No, I I agree, Michelle. I read the room and and usually I don't bring it up unless I feel that there is space for it. You know, I'm not gonna walk into class and sit down, like, you know, I working with the military, for example. I'm not gonna walk into a meeting and be like, so I just saw your Antoon outside. Let's talk about that. Like you don't bring it up if it's not appropriate. And on that same token, like you can kind of walk those those lines to kind of see where people stand. But if you tell me I don't believe in that stuff, I will look at you and be like, cool, like that is a choice that you're making. Your your belief or disbelief is not gonna impact one aspect of my life whatsoever. And then if if somebody doesn't react like to my mom that well, she goes, She's a PhD student. And I'm like, she's trying to re-ilmate. It's really funny. I love my mom.

SPEAKER_02 17:58

I wish she could just lead with that.

SPEAKER_03 18:01

Sometimes it depends, it depends on her mood.

SPEAKER_02 18:03

It depends on her mood.

SPEAKER_03 18:04

It really does. She carries my cards everywhere and like gives them out too. It's really funny.

SPEAKER_01 18:09

Oh, that's sweet though.

SPEAKER_00 18:13

Sounds a little spicy, also.

SPEAKER_03 18:16

She is, she's quite spicy.

SPEAKER_00 18:18

Yeah, you know, I believe in any given communication, you can find common ground. And if there's something that isn't comfortable for either person, you just stay away from that and talk about something else.

SPEAKER_03 18:31

Sometimes when people say I don't believe in that stuff, it's because of their ingrained belief system. So sometimes it can actually start a beautiful conversation about, you know, them, their history, their past, and stuff like that. I know one woman that was like, I don't believe in that stuff. I sat down with her and I was like, Well, talk to me about that. Like, I just out of curiosity, it wasn't picking a fight. And she said, I was raised Catholic. And I went, Hey, so was I. And then, you know, you get the backpedaling thing of the, well, now I don't know what to say because now we've got common ground, right? Like now, now you actually know where I'm coming from. And I'm like, Yeah, you're absolutely right. It's not necessarily accepted in in certain religions. But I will say the the Catholic faith is known for exorcisms.

SPEAKER_00 19:12

Oh, that's true. I was just gonna say, I love that you put words kind of to where I was going. You just are respectful about it. If someone comes to me and it happened to me when I was just back home visiting someone, said, I don't get all this, but I'm not gonna say it's not happening because I believe in you. So let's have the conversation and be respectful about it. I'm completely open to that. And if at the end of the conversation, we're still not connecting there, let's move on to something else. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 19:41

And I think, you know, I'll also throw out there that my husband's been very helpful to me with this because he doesn't understand it. You know, I remember taking him on a clearing that I did and we went to dinner. And I may have shared this in an earlier podcast. So I apologize if I'm repeating myself. But we sat down at dinner and he just he was really chewing on something, and I could tell it was bothering him. And he finally said, you know what, Stacey, I know, I know you did something, but I don't understand what you did. And I don't, I didn't feel anything, and I and I just don't understand it. And I looked at him and I said, I am so grateful that you were there and you were able to experience it that you know, at any sort of level, but you don't have to understand it. You just have to trust that that, you know, I was able to help some people. And he was like, okay, and he was cool with that.

SPEAKER_02 20:27

I was raised Baptist and then I went Lutheran, got confirmed, did the whole confirmation thing with Lutheranism. And when I got into, I think, my early 30s and late 20s, early 30s, I became an atheist just because I ended up getting my degree in psychology and we're all about breaking down illusions. And I feel like it was really important for me to go through so I can empathize and understand why some people are more science-based versus religious or spiritual. So I thought it was a great experience too. And again, there's no right, wrong, good, or bad. We're on this podcast saying, not saying we're not here saying, oh, our way is the right way. You're the dumb person. No, we are all here having experience. We're not saying this is the be all end all.

SPEAKER_03 21:22

And we're here to learn from one another, too. And it can be a really fun and enlightening conversation for everyone.

SPEAKER_00 21:28

And going back to everything that we've talked about here, and I've shared this on a previous podcast. For me, coming out as a psychic medium to people in my everyday life has been really challenging. When we started this podcast, I knew the people I could invite to listen or to one of our social media accounts, and I knew the people I couldn't. And so I just left it there for anyone to find. And a couple of people who Our friends in real life have found the podcast. And I've heard a couple of comments made. And I'm thinking that's exactly why I didn't tell you about it, because it's not a joke. I'm not a witch. Not that there would be anything wrong with that if I were. Everybody's entitled to their religion and how they want to approach things. I do believe in God. Not that anybody needs to know my beliefs, but it just really when people come at it with respect, it's one thing. And when they come at it like kind of making fun of you or trying to find a way to like make fun of you about it, that just doesn't feel good. And I don't know how to deal with it.

SPEAKER_03 22:36

Well, and I think what you're what you're saying is one of the conversations that I think that we've had recently is, you know, just don't be a douche. You know, have a conversation, be open.

SPEAKER_02 22:47

And hurt people, hurt people. So if they're hearing here, hearing this and that it's easier to make fun of versus question their path, that's the route they're gonna take. And so, like I say, we can't ever take anything personal whenever we're triggered. It has nothing to do with the other person, it has to do with our stuff.

SPEAKER_00 23:07

Absolutely. So you say they need to do some shadow work, inner child work about it. No, that I need to because I'm the one reacting to them questioning. Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_03 23:19

Yeah. So if you're triggered, then yeah, then that's just some inner child work. And and I'll throw out there, Michelle, you're not the only one that's going to be triggered by these things. Like, I like I said, and I joke when I say, like, when people ask me for the winning lottery tickets, like I immediately want to punch them in the face. That's not really the truth. Like, it's it's definitely one of those things that comes up often enough that it's it just annoys me. But it took me a really long time to figure out how to be okay with people telling me that they felt like I was full of shit. And and that's kind of when somebody says, Yeah, I don't believe in all that stuff, they're telling you that they think you are full of shit. That's that's that's I don't care whether you believe in the spiritual realm or not. That's how it really does come across. So whenever you step into that, I look at it as this like, am I going to allow them to impact how I feel about me when they don't even really know me on any level, other than, hey, my name is Stacey. Huh. I'm meaning you for like what the the third, fourth time in passing. Like, no, I am not going to question your belief system. And if you're that open and willing to share that you don't believe in mine, to me, it's more of a message of who you are as a person. And so I don't get upset anymore because you are speaking to yourself and you are telling me that it kind of might suck because or they're just scared.

SPEAKER_00 24:38

But going back to that conversation, I don't know if I shared at the beginning of this episode or the last episode where the woman was telling me how it had to be when I did a reading and that I was doing it wrong. She did push on my my triggers because I don't want people to.

SPEAKER_02 24:53

Well, she sucked. I'm gonna go with Stacy on that. She's sucked.

SPEAKER_00 24:58

But it is an insecurity that people are gonna think I'm lying or that I'm fake because you know, so this is so new to me. I haven't, I mean, I've always had experiences, but I haven't really jumped into it for longer than about four years.

SPEAKER_02 25:14

So and this is important, and this is important for the listeners because for me, yeah, I was kind of always interested, but my first thing that happened didn't happen till I was 17. And then I shut it down, became an atheist, and then it opened up. And there's a lot of people like you and me who do that kind of stuff, and so it's really important for us all like Stacey. She's been open to it since she can remember, right? And we don't have to be that person where it's like I was psychic from day one. Like it's really important to see how we're all different and how we manage our lives.

SPEAKER_03 25:48

I shut it down for a while too myself, because I got I got scared. I did, I stepped into some fear, and so I I didn't read, I probably shut it down when I was 16 and didn't read again until I was in my like early, early 20s. So yeah, I've been a reader since I was 13, but not in the capacity that I was constantly doing it. But the other thing, Michelle, that you the other thought that you both are triggering in me is um this idea that readings have to be a certain way, that they're always going to enlighten you in some capacity, or that they're always going to give you the answers to all of your questions. Because I will be so honest and tell you some of the worst readings that I have ever given that I sat back after that reading and went, What the fuck? Like what like nothing good came through. Like, I don't understand. This person is sitting in front of me, they paid for a reading, and I fucking suck. And those readings are the ones that always come through, and and I get messages within a week or two going, you changed everything, like everything that you're doing.

SPEAKER_02 26:49

You're doing something energetically too.

SPEAKER_03 26:52

Yep. Well, and and and it's it's interesting though, because I don't always like it. No, you're not aware, yeah, but but I don't know what's gonna hit and what's not gonna hit. And because of that, it's all so different that you know, I always worry. I don't, I don't want somebody to pay for a reading and then sit in front of them, go, there's nothing coming through. Because information is always coming through, but sometimes I hit that wall, and that wall is what I need to be focused on, and that's what the reading is about. And so it's it's all very, very different. It's it's just it's very different. Sorry, that level of tangent.

SPEAKER_02 27:26

Well, yeah, because there's no reading the same. Like if I have someone they and they go and I say, if you go tell a friend, it's gonna come out differently. I've had connection sessions where they had they felt their loved one energetically versus seeing them. It's all different. I've had some where they are connecting with them and they're getting answers about what they should do with their life. Then I had some where they're just sitting with them. It's no right, there's no same way. I think that was awesome to bring that up. It's a good point.

SPEAKER_00 27:57

I think it's a great point, also. And just know we're human. I mean, we're having our human experience. And while we get a lot of information, we're not a hundred percent. I mean, even in our day-to-day life, in interactions where I'm meeting somebody or I've known somebody for 20 years, sometimes I make a mistake too, and thinking, like, oh, I can trust you with this and not. So I'm not always spot on, and I don't ever claim to be. I'm just doing the best I can to make a difference in the world around me. And I think that's what I need to focus on. I need to shut down the noise of the people who are doubting it because I know what my intentions are. The the universe knows what my intentions are, and that's where my focus needs to be. And I've just taught myself something new right here in this moment, taught myself something new.

SPEAKER_02 28:48

Yeah, and like Stacey said, intuition is always there. Remember, along we have a consciousness, we have intuition, the light is always on. But if we're always tapping in, you're gonna go crazy, man.

SPEAKER_01 29:00

You're gonna go crazy.

SPEAKER_03 29:01

Well, and and you know, the example that I used about having those million voices essentially around me, if I was always tapping in, I don't know if I could have any normal human interactions. I wouldn't be able to do this podcast because there's too much noise, there's too much information flowing through. So I I want to enjoy the human life as well. I want to, you know, roll around in the mud. I don't I don't fucking know. I don't have an example, and I don't even know why that was the one that I pulled. I want I want to get historically roll in the mud, I guess. I want to be able to like enjoy those the small human moments. I don't want to walk into a party or a surprise party and know that it's gonna be a surprise party. Like, I want to be able to enjoy those things. It doesn't work because my husband can't keep his mouth shut and he has done a surprise party for me in the past and invited somebody like five feet behind me to come to the surprise party. So he totally gave it away. But that's that's human, so that's fine. But I want to be able to enjoy living, I want to be able to, you know, have those small moments. So tapping in constantly would be it would ruin that.

SPEAKER_00 30:03

Yeah, and I love when I'm genuinely surprised because it doesn't happen often and it's nobody's fault. I just am not often surprised. And every night in my faith talk, I say, I want to be present for the lessons, both the good lessons and the bad lessons, because everything teaches me something, and then I can help somebody else. And if I don't allow myself to have those experiences, if I'm concentrated too much on everybody else's stuff, then I'm losing out on my own experience.

SPEAKER_03 30:35

Absolutely. I agree with that wholeheartedly. So can you guys give me the winning lottery numbers?

SPEAKER_00 30:40

Yeah, 21. 32. No, I'm kidding. I have no idea.

SPEAKER_02 30:47

Eight 521.

SPEAKER_00 30:49

Nine niner. I've never even played the lottery, ever.

SPEAKER_02 30:54

I don't even know how many numbers they're supposed to go. So whoever wants to be, neither do I. So we'll just throw random numbers out there. No, um, if you wouldn't send us um donate to our podcast.

SPEAKER_00 31:07

Yeah. Before we wrap up this episode, I do want to say in the next couple weeks, a couple of us are going to a haunted location. And I'm bringing this up, A, because we're recording this early. So our next podcast after this one will actually be about our experience there. We'll share where we went, but I'm still battling with a little bit of the fear, and the place already knows it because it's starting to seep in, it's getting through my protection right now, and I'm already having experiences. So yeah, send me good vibes.

SPEAKER_02 31:44

Gonna be interesting. And if you you all listeners like it, um, we're gonna do another one and go the east coast with uh Stacey. So chime in. Yeah, we're gonna video some stuff too. So chime in on Instagram, YouTube, comments, all that kind of stuff. Let us know.

SPEAKER_03 32:03

And if you guys are listening and you know, you know of a good place in the East Coast, I I mean, let us know. Let us know if you if you know, own, um, want to open up to us. Like we're we're here. I mean, I'm in New Hampshire, so Maine, New Hampshire, Mass, Vermont, any anywhere you know, I'm gonna drag them up here and show them around.

SPEAKER_02 32:24

So, yeah, if y'all have seen it on on TV, oh, you know of a place.

SPEAKER_00 32:29

Tell us, yeah, let us know. Yeah, be sure to check out our social media too, because we're gonna be taking some video, maybe some audio recordings. We don't know how this experience is gonna go. We're open to the possibilities.

SPEAKER_02 32:44

You guys are gonna have so much fun. I'm not staying the night. You would definitely stay the night, Stacey. But no, I'm already picking up. I'm already picking up the like when I I was in my meditation, like they were showing me about some stuff, and I was like, Oh, that's a little dark. But also immediately, too, I'm very sensitive with food, environment, smoke. It's I don't know if it's dust or mold in that house, but I'm not staying the night.

SPEAKER_00 33:13

Well, when you tap into what it is, let us know if it's like a health concern or risking our health at all.

SPEAKER_02 33:18

Oh, I mean, one night's not gonna be a big deal. I think with mold exposure, I think it has to be like a how a sure a while staying in the house. But for me, I'm very sensitive.

SPEAKER_03 33:29

It will come on interesting. Come on, Stacy. I can't, I you guys literally just gave me the date a week ago, and I start school next week.

SPEAKER_02 33:37

Well, I wasn't gonna go. Remember, I wasn't gonna go. I was like, I'm not going, I'm gonna stay in night.

SPEAKER_00 33:43

And then she called and she's like, Well, we got a hotel, and I'm like, fine, yeah, and then your immediate um response to the hotel is uh they probably have bed bugs. So Miss Uh Killjoy here every step of the way.

SPEAKER_02 33:59

It's in a small town, and it's I mean, it is a brand new hotel, thank goodness. But you know, it's just like a motel kind of place.

SPEAKER_00 34:06

Look at Stacey State. We're gonna have lots of spiritual experiences and human experiences and no bed bugs, and no bed bugs, and it's gonna be all positive.

SPEAKER_03 34:20

You guys can have a blast. So I guess with that, we can close out this episode. So I'll say stay classy, stay sassy, stay spicy or badassy.

SPEAKER_00 34:35

Bye, guys.

SPEAKER_02 34:36

Bye, guys. Love you all, you know.